Heterosexual Woman Seeking Better Porn

I'm a very heterosexual woman. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the beauty of a woman's body with all its softness, fragrance, and curves. But it just doesn't do it for me. I cannot help it that I am, simply put, not gay. I do not even qualify as bisexual because, well... pussy just doesn't do anything for me. It's just. There.

But I like cock. A lot.

I get plenty of good sex from the husband, thank goddess, but sometimes I just want to see a random beautiful man masturbating or going at it like he hasn't fucked in 10 years. I don't need to touch it; I just want to see it. And I don't want to see the woman getting fucked; I want to watch the guy doing the fucking. This is surprisingly hard to find. Am I the only one that's into this? I can't imagine that I am. Why is it, then, that is is so hard to find good, free porn for straight women who like men?

The selection of female-friendly porn usually consists of lesbian porn (which is fine, just not my thing), gay porn (a decent option, but not the same), and vanilla-flavored, rose-petal-scented romantic scenes that bore me to tears. Then there are the really beautiful, well-made videos from female porn directors. I would never bash these works of art. It's just that sometimes I want something a little more raunchy and more... hetero. Think along the lines of "lonely sexy straight soldier taking care of business" and "sexy, faithful soldier gets hands on his wife after a 2-year absence". Think of the bottled up sexual energy that guy would have...

Why is it that in this day and age women are still so grossly underrepresented in the insanely huge industry of adult entertainment? Is it that no one thinks of us? is it that we're ashamed of our sexuality? is it that we don't feel it's important enough to produce it ourselves?

I'm going to go with All of the Above.

I don't need to tell anyone how badly female sexuality is suppressed and controlled. We're still getting slut-shamed left and right. From the time we can understand anything we're told men are something to fear and stay away from because they are such sick fucks (and with good reason because there really are a lot of sick fucks out there). But as we get older that caution turns into a different fear- fear of being perceived as a slut, a hoe, a tool. Fear of having too many partners, of showing our sexuality. Girls are supposed to save their virginity for someone special, still, as if it were some rare coin not to be given away. Give me a break.

That sentiment of restricted sexuality stays with us for most of our lives, until at some point later in life some of us wake up (hello, cougar ladies- I salute you). For the most part though, female sexuality and fantasies are glossed-over and ignored in favor of more "ladylike" things like homemaking, career planning, and child rearing. In the meantime, men are still obsessed with sex and they produce all that porn- because they can. It's ok for them to do it, and they're not ashamed to make money from it. And no, they're not thinking of us at all.

I am here to state that heterosexual feminist women do exist, that we are sexual beings, that we like men, and that we expect our limits to be respected but that doesn't mean that we don't like to fuck.... one thing does not negate the other. We like to see naked men and yes, we have our own variety of perversions. There is nothing wrong with this. It doesn't make us sluts or "easy". It doesn't mean we're automatically giving consent. It doesn't make us less ambitious or less dedicated to our families. It does, however, make us more human.

Let's get this old fashioned sexual repression bullshit over with already and be proud of our immense capability for pleasure and sex. Let's make good heterosexual women's porn- and lots of it. Even something as simple as this. That's a start.